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I find myself in mental confusion a lot. Do you have any suggestions for alleviating mental confusion?
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are many different manifestations that are termed “mental confusion.” I
think you may be referring to the type of mental confusion that is
characterized by “mind loops.” Mind loops are characterized by “Catch
22” logic sequences, labyrinthine reasoning that contains dead ends,
and knots of thoughts which fold back on themselves without producing
the hoped for clarity.
This type of mental confusion is usually found in people who are viewed
as having a high level of intellectual intelligence. In fact, I have
found that people who have this type of issue work with their minds for
a profession. They can generate logic sequences that make them valuable
contributors at work – but that same capacity will often send them into
mental traps when they try to apply such logic sequences to experience
that is not Cartesian or linear in nature.
Many people who have a highly developed intellectual capacity have
developed mental processes at the expense of developing other types of
knowing. Often, they have taken refuge in their mind capacity because
the world beyond linear or Cartesian explication is too confusing or
scary. The worlds of emotion, intention, and motivation cannot
generally be grasped when only intellectual intelligence is applied to
them. Unfortunately, people with strong intellectual capacity can make
things like emotions more confusing for themselves by trying to apply
their usual logic sequences to the emotion in an effort to understand
it.
Sometimes, people with strong mental capacity will actually use that
capacity to avoid emotions or other things that trouble them. When this
happens, mental confusion invariably sets in. This is because emotions
cannot be intellectually parsed and laid out in a sequence. The effort
to do this creates the loops, knots, and dead ends referred to above.
The best remedy for this kind of confusion, then, is for the person who
is experiencing mental confusion to “drop out” of the mental realm and
try to understand what all the mental activity is in response to. This
is where meditation and systems like Depth Hypnosis can be of
assistance. Both offer pathways out of the mental realms and into other
ways of knowing.
For many people who are skilled in mental processing, the suggestion
that they approach life from another angle can be very challenging.
When presented with this suggestion, they will often generate highly
elegant mental defenses to keep themselves from being able to exit the
sphere of the mind. Depth Hypnosis is particular useful in these cases
because it has many methods for piercing resistance while gently
assisting the client past the resistance so the client can perceive
what is at the root of the mental confusion.
In point of fact, this root cannot be perceived by chasing the loops
and knots. It is almost always a mistake to try and follow the loops
and knots in hopes of arriving at resolution. One known, but
under-used intelligence all people have access to is the intelligence
of the heart. To resolve mental confusion, I recommend becoming a
student of the heart.
Becoming a student of the heart may sound easy – and ideally, it should
be easy. But many people have a lot of abandoned experience in their
hearts. Part of the process of learning to listen with the heart is to
learn to listen to this experience. It can be a bumpy ride, but it is
one well worth taking. Even though it might be difficult, it is more
easeful than living in the prison of mental confusion.
Let yourself learn to listen with the heart. All phenomena have their
own logic sequences. If you stop trying to impose the logic sequences
you generate on experience and let experience unfold, it will reveal
its own logic sequences to you. This may feel like you are losing
control of the world around you, if you are used to controlling your
experience by generating your own mind sequences. But ultimately, you
will find you are far more at ease in the world when you realize you
can use the intelligence of your heart to uncover the causative root of
most phenomena. Mental confusion cannot exist in such an
environment.
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